Book Review – A Million Miles in a Thousand Years, by Donald Miller

What would it look like to edit your life so that it would make a good movie? That is what Donald Miller faced when he was approached to turn his memoir, Blue Like Jazz into a movie. As Don began to understand what makes for a great story, he started to see how these principles could also make for a great life; his journey is chronicled in his book, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years.

As characters in God’s story, we have a choice: to follow the plot God is unfolding, or resist God and try to write our own plot. If sin originally means “to miss the mark,” maybe the greatest sin of all is to intentionally miss out on the story in which God has included me. Is seeking my own comfort instead of risking it all with God the real area of sin in my life?

I have had a lot of changes in my life story in the last five years. I was transformed by studying through the Bible, got married, moved five different times (in two different countries) and left my career to take on a support-based vocation. As a result, I found a fog has settled into my soul, a fog which some might call depression. In God’s sovereignty, two things came into my life at the same time that I believe will help to lift this fog. This book was one of them. The other is the realization that I need to see a counsellor who can help me process what I have walked through in the last five years (or more). I share this because my current context really influenced my opinion of the book. In many ways Miller’s own journey towards living a better story has changed him and has changed his writing. Some may be put off by this, but it was exactly want I needed to read.

Much of what Don says about how his discovery of what makes a good story – which challenged him to make changes in his life – challenges me. Am I living a story worth telling, or that I will even remember? I believe God longs for me to go on an adventure with Him, but have I given that up because a good story involves the characters being transformed by the conflict they face? Jesus paid a great price for me to be freed from the bad story I was in. Jesus is actually our best example of what a great story looks like: defeating sin and gaining victory for all in His resurrection. God is calling me to join in that story, which will have it’s climax when Jesus returns.

I am thankful for the characters God has surrounded me with in my story. I am thankful for my wife, my immediate family and my spiritual family. I am also thankful for those who, in a small way, are watching my story unfold here on this blog. I hope that it will be one that is worth reading about.


Book Review: QUIET: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, by Susan Cain

Those who know me (family included) would describe my personality as extroverted. I certainly have my moments. I (Michael) am often the first one to speak and the last one to shut up in public settings. If I think really hard about my life, however, and as I come to understand what defines someone’s personality as introverted, I am starting to realize that I sit more in the middle of the introvert-extrovert spectrum. As an only child I would often get lost in my own little worlds of make-believe. As I got older that became less played out with toys, and more with mornings laying in bed, dreaming of what life would be like if I followed this path or that one. Now as I have the freedom to decide my own schedule and relationships, I still find myself needing time to myself. Now I would never go so far as to say that I am a dyed-in-wool introvert, but I certainly have my moments.

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking

Recently, I watched an interview by my favorite Canadian talk-show host (George Stroumboulopoulos), and he was speaking to a lovely soft spoken woman who was promoting her new book. Her name was Susan Cain and her book was called QUIET: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking. In addition to my own leaning towards “introvert-time,” I am also married to a pure introvert (introverts and extroverts are often drawn to each other) and pretty much everyone I work with on the SBS staff are introverts also. It quickly became clear to me that this was a book I needed to read. Now that I am finished it, I find myself in even great awe of introverts. In her book, Susan Cain makes a clear case for the “Extrovert Ideal” that is glorified in the western world. Introverts are often wrongly accused of being anti-social when they are deeply social people who are just not interested in the overwhelming stimulation of being the social butterfly fluttering around a party. Additionally, many of the truly creative geniuses in almost every field have been introverts. Really, introverts have much more to teach extroverts than the other way around (though they are often encouraged to pretend to be extroverted). Overall, I have come to appreciate the stress it must be on my beautiful wife’s system to be married to me at times. Thanks Helen.

One of the interesting questions I came away with from reading this book, that I would challenge anyone to think about, is how the “Extrovert Ideal” has shaped what we consider to be appropriate Christian behavior. Susan interviews ordained Presbyterian minister Adam McHugh ( in one chapter of her book discussing the ways in which what is defined as “good Christian behavior” can be very draining for the introvert. She attended a Sunday worship service at Saddleback Church with McHugh. Much of the social emphasis, though designed to connect people, only acts to intimidate and overwhelm the introvert. As I read this portion of the book these were some of my thoughts that I wrote down: “Is the modern evangelical community and evangelism in general anti-introvert?” “Is the public expression of faith today buying into the ‘Extrovert Ideal’?” “Does sociable = good Christian?” I must admit that if Jesus is the model, then I see Him seek as much solitude as he does time with the crowds. All of this has had me wondering what this looks like, especially in a missions organization. Where is the place for the introvert in the great commission? As I have thought about it, I have realized that the introvert may actually be our greatest tool in world evangelism. We need more people who are willing to listen before they speak. We need people who, when they speak, do so from a place of contemplation and with depth and conviction. We need people like those I work with, who love to dig deep into the riches of the Scriptures and bring the truth into the light. I personally need my wife who will take the time to edit this post and maintain the kind of thoughtful connection to those who partner with us in this work. I marveled recently at the amazing and creative teaching Helen did recently that came from her hours of thoughtful study. In an age when televangelists and mega-churches have become the face of the church, we could seriously benefit as the body of Christ from those who are willing to sit and listen to a world that longs to be heard.